7 typical types of eye-contact everyone should be aware of.

Raise your hands if you think Eye contact is important!

Well, I didn’t think it played such an important role four years ago, until now.  Back when i was a kid i was told not to maintain eye contact because it reflected disrespect. Now, if i don’t maintain an eye contact people think it’s disrespectful. What a twist in the story!

Did you know that there are different types of eye contact? Lets  do some eye talk today.

Here are some easy-to-relate types of eye contact you probably have come across or you probably have given to someone intentionally and unintentionally.

  • The Crazy eye contact– Ever gone into a bar, sat down and sensed someone gazing at you? With the eye of intimacy? But the sad part is you dislike every part of the scene and you look away. And you try to NOT look at them. You know they’re looking at you but you consciously look away from them while secretly rolling your eyes with a sentence in your mind “What a creep!”. If you see this, Stop staring because it means “I’m not interested in you Creepy little fellow- keep away!”


  • The normal eye contact– You’re walking on the road and you happen to glance at someone in-the-eye (oh shit) and both of you’s eyes meet and then immediately look away while you keep walking. Eeehh.. Happens all the time! This type of eye contact is kind of normal or you could say neutral- nothing really happening. Most of the people don’t even realize that they were looking.

  • The intimidated eye contact– You’re walking on the road and you happen to glance at someone in-the-eye (AGAIN) and both you’s eyes meet except this time, you look down as quickly as you can INTENTIAONALLY with a subtle hint of shyness! This could probably mean you’re attracted towards them but you don’t know about it. It just happens unintentionally!


  • The twice eye contact– You know what that means! Glancing Twice is a sign of interest (At least that’s what I think). You just want to have a sneak peek into that face once more while your brain formulates answers like – “Hold on! I know this person..hmm.. snapchat? Facebook? Highschool? Friends friend?”,” He has an attractive face”..Or Twice could be a sign of “Hold on! Is she wearing a pink eye shadow on her cheeks?”  “Oh my god why can’t people distinguish between pants and leggings!”…..You choose!

  • The sincere eye contact– Animals and humans are quiet similar with this type of eye contact. When you smash almost everything that’s breakable in your room because you think YOU NEED A BREAK. But later you need to convince your mother that it was the wind that made the mess- that’s when you use the sincere eye contact. It shows pure guilt and sincere apologies. A clear hint- You get away with anything with this look. Try it! Naughty guilty dogs do it all the time and it always works!

  • The dreamy eye contact– Everybody tends to zone out and that’s when the dreamy eye contact comes in place. You’ve been staring at someone for more than 2-3 sec while you don’t know you have been staring at them to actually make them feel uncomfortable. But..You still don’t want to blink or move your sight out of the place because it feels comfortable day- dreaming that way! Sorry Bros.. Can’t help it! I’m having the best unconscious stare of my life!

  • The Scary-creepy eye contact- Ever got shivers down your spine because of the way someone’s staring at you?   For instances, you’re lining up for your coffee or walking down a quiet path and you catch two diabolic creepy eyes staring at you. This could be too much eye contact making you feel uncomfortable beyond the limits. More like threatening and less weird.
    People.. you got to practice how to NOT give this type of eye-contact because it scares the sh** out of anyone.

So.. What do you think? Have you encountered any other type of eye-contact besides these? If you have feel free to comment and share your experience.

Untill next time- Keep your eyes trained! (Wink..Wink)





What does it take to being a human?


A very vast and complex question “What make us human?”

There are obliviously different views and opinions about a perfect human being because truth to be said there are no perfect human being. There is always an existence of some sort of “error” within every single one us. Just like advanced technologies which tend to make mistakes even though they are designed to perform tasks with a perfect quality.  So, If machines can make mistakes then we are human’s! We have one brain which denies to work without a cup of coffee some days, while some days it works like a manic machine.

We are MULTIFACED and so UNPREDICATABLE, don‘t you think?

So, maybe… the “what does it take to be a human?” is not the question. Rather, we should ask “what does it take to be a BETTER human being than I am now?”

Well.. It still is a vast question and if I’ve guessed right, you might have already goggled (at least once in your life until now) “How to be a better person? Or the best boyfriend/ girlfriend? Or mother? Or a good employee?  Blah. blah blah! And I bet, 90% of the articles you clicked on said;

  • Forgive
  • Listen
  • Love
  • Adapt changes… and the list goes on..

But guess what? That’s the hardest part! Being a human is not easy. It’s challenging in every single way. How can we be more caring, more loving, more giving, less talking, less complaining?

Let’s see…, The major characteristics of a human being is to be able to laugh and to make others laugh, think, imagine, talk, get angry, jealous and see beauty. We cannot go beyond this, we are asking for too much if we want to be more humorous, more beautiful, rich and intelligent. Having said that, there is one more characteristics which I missed out; “It’s asking for more”. See, that’s why being human, is so complicated.

So how is it that we become a better human being?  

Just being yourself! No one can do a better job than you, yourself at being yourself. It’s easy.

Make mistakes! Because we all learn from our mistakes. Things will go wrong and that’s ok. It’s not the end of the world. We can always make up to it, whether it is sooner or later. You might say “they haven’t yet invented an eraser to erase off the mistakes we make in life.” But why do we need it? So that we can all be perfect? Yes, it might erase off the mistakes superficially but No, it won’t erase off the traces. Why hide it when we can work on building a better future while embracing the fact that it was meant to happen! It’s the timing and the amount of motivation we have in us that matter, not the number of mistakes we have made.

Also, let’s all forget about being “A GOOD PERSON” because the truth is, there are no good people or bad people! But there are good deeds and bad deeds. We are human and this is what we do- we react to a situation the way it hits us! We love someone who loves us and hate someone who hates us! We can’t forgive, until and unless there is mutual sense of forgiveness from both parties. It is simple as that.

We don’t usually realize that we, as a human being, are gifted with awesome things which non-human beings (I mean animals and all other non-living things) don’t have. We have powerful sense of decision making and communicating our needs.  Just close your eyes now and quickly rewind the things you have done today. Don’t you feel lucky for being able to imagine and reflecting back on things you have done just by closing your eyes for a second?  Isn’t that great? Yeah! This is what BEING HUMAN feels like.

Beautiful and satisfying that we exist with such massive powers!